Danielle Laidley

Danielle Laidley
Personal information
Date of birth	(1967-03-27) 27 March 1967 (age 57)
Original team(s)	West Perth (WAFL)
Debut	Round 1, 29 March 1987, West Coast vs. Richmond, at Subiaco Oval
Position(s)	Half-back
Playing career^1
Years	Club	Games (Goals)
1984–1992	West Perth	70 (22)
1987–1992	West Coast	52 (11)
1993–1997	North Melbourne	99 0(4)
Total		221 (37)
Representative team honours
Years	Team	Games (Goals)
1988, 1996	Western Australia	2 (0)
Coaching career^3
Years	Club	Games (W–L–D)
2003–2009	North Melbourne	149 (72–75–2)
^1 Playing statistics correct to the end of 1997. ^2 State and international statistics correct as of 1996. ^3 Coaching statistics correct as of 2010.
Career highlights
North Melbourne premiership player: 1996 AFL Grand Final Western Australia state of origin representative 1996, 1998
Sources: AFL Tables, AustralianFootball.com

Danielle May Laidley (born Dean James Laidley; 27 March 1967) is a former Australian rules football coach and player, who played for the West Coast Eagles and North Melbourne in the Australian Football League (AFL) from 1987 to 1997, including in North Melbourne's 1996 premiership team, and was coach of North Melbourne from 2003 to 2009.

In May 2020, Laidley was outed as transgender after a police officer leaked photographs of her in police custody.

Early life

Laidley was born on 27 March 1967^[1] and grew up in Balga, Western Australia, a working-class northern suburb of Perth.^[2]

Lightly built, Laidley first played senior football at the West Perth Football Club in the West Australian Football League, and was recruited to be part of the West Coast Eagles' inaugural VFL squad in 1987.

VFL/AFL playing career

West Coast Eagles (1987–1992)

Laidley made her VFL debut for the West Coast Eagles in Round 1, 1987, against Richmond at Subiaco Oval. As an aggressive half-back line player and known as "The Junkyard Dog", Laidley was known for his commitment to the contest and to winning the ball. Her career suffered a major setback during the 1990 season when she required a knee reconstruction and found it hard to break back into the team, missing West Coast's 1992 premiership win.^[3]

Laidley played a total of 52 games and kicked 11 goals for West Coast Eagles from 1987 until 1992.^[3]

North Melbourne (1993–1997)

At the end of 1992, Laidley was traded to North Melbourne. A trademark of her play was the execution of the strategy of either kicking out or receiving uncontested a short kick-out to the back pocket, a strategy which was later widely adopted by other clubs.^[3] Laidley was also part of the North Melbourne premiership side in 1996.^[3]

Laidley played a total of 99 games and kicked 4 goals for North Melbourne from 1993 until 1997.^[3]

Coaching career

Early career (1998–2002)

After retiring from the AFL, Laidley took up coaching, beginning with the Weston Creek team in the AFL Canberra competition.

Her first AFL coaching role was with Collingwood as an assistant coach under Mick Malthouse, where she was involved in the club's 2002 AFL Grand Final loss.

North Melbourne (2003–2009)

After the resignation of Denis Pagan as senior coach, Laidley was recruited as the senior coach of the Kangaroos for the 2003 season.^[4] In her first two years, the team finished 10th. She coached the Kangaroos to the finals for her first time as coach in the 2005 season, but the club was defeated by Port Adelaide in an elimination final. In the 2006 season they regressed and finished 14th. Laidley's ferocity as a player transferred into her coaching style, with her team said to embody the "Shinboner Spirit" of determination and never giving up. She was also seen on occasion to be aggressive towards her playing group.^[2]

During a 2006 match against St Kilda, a Kangaroos supporter had a confrontation with Laidley, with the team putting up consistently poor performances. The supporter twice made remarks to which Laidley responded with an honest summation "we are all hurting", later inviting the supporter to the club rooms to see how badly the players were feeling due to their onfield performance. The footage was captured on television and broadcast nationally. The supporter died by suicide later that night, unrelated to the incident with Laidley.^[5]

Laidley took the Kangaroos to the finals for the second time in 2007. At the end of the year, her contract was due for renewal. Former Kangaroos star Wayne Carey criticised Laidley and argued that another former teammate, John Longmire, should replace her.^[6] After a forthright response by Laidley that referenced Carey's personal scandals,^[7] Carey responded by describing her as arrogant and also called her aloof, saying she generally did not acknowledge her old teammates.^[8] Despite Melbourne Football Club making advances to secure her as coach,^[9] Laidley's contract with the Kanagaroos – now going by their former name, North Melbourne – was renewed for two years. She took North Melbourne to the finals again in 2008.

After a mid-season review in 2009 and following a string of losses, Laidley resigned as senior coach of North Melbourne on 16 June 2009, one round before what would have been her 150th game as coach. Laidley was replaced by assistant coach Darren Crocker as caretaker senior coach of North Melbourne for the rest of the 2009 season.^[10][11]

Port Adelaide (2010–2011)

In September 2009, Laidley joined the coaching group at the Port Adelaide Football Club.

After one season as an assistant to Mark Williams and later Matthew Primus, Laidley announced that she would return to Melbourne in 2011 for family reasons, but said she was available to work as an opposition scout and analysis based in Melbourne for Port Adelaide. However, on 27 October 2010, Port Adelaide announced that she would continue on as an assistant coach based four days in Adelaide and three days in Melbourne a week in the 2011 season. She interviewed for the Essendon Football Club senior coach position when it was left vacant by the sacking of Matthew Knights but was unsuccessful.

St Kilda (2011–2013)

In early November 2011, Laidley was announced as the new midfield coach of the St Kilda Football Club.^[12] Of the move, St Kilda's head of football, Chris Pelchen, said that Laidley "has a wealth of knowledge as a former player and coach in [his] own right. [His] experience will genuinely assist the development of the whole player list at the Saints."^[12]

Carlton (2013–2015)

Laidley signed with Carlton as midfield assistant coach on 31 October 2013. With the appointment of Brendon Bolton in 2015, Laidley left Carlton.

Statistics

Playing statistics

Legend

G	Goals	K	Kicks	D	Disposals	T	Tackles
B	Behinds	H	Handballs	M	Marks

^[13]

Season	Team	No.	Games	Totals							Averages (per game)							Votes
				G	B	K	H	D	M	T	G	B	K	H	D	M	T
1987	West Coast	15	10	2	5	119	24	143	37	6	0.2	0.5	11.9	2.4	14.3	3.7	0.6	0
1988	West Coast	15	11	6	4	139	29	168	44	11	0.5	0.4	12.6	2.6	15.3	4.0	1.0	0
1989	West Coast	15	10	0	3	116	60	176	40	15	0.0	0.3	11.6	6.0	17.6	4.0	1.5	0
1990	West Coast	15	7	1	0	93	45	138	23	1	0.1	0.0	13.3	6.4	19.7	3.3	0.1	5
1991	West Coast	15	0	—	—	—	—	—	—	—	—	—	—	—	—	—	—	—
1992	West Coast	15	14	2	5	158	90	248	30	13	0.1	0.4	11.3	6.4	17.7	2.1	0.9	2
1993	North Melbourne	7	17	1	2	209	60	269	35	23	0.1	0.1	12.3	3.5	15.8	2.1	1.4	6
1994	North Melbourne	7	24	0	0	302	137	439	77	16	0.0	0.0	12.6	5.7	18.3	3.2	0.7	4
1995	North Melbourne	7	23	0	2	272	131	403	82	24	0.0	0.1	11.8	5.7	17.5	3.6	1.0	3
1996†	North Melbourne	7	24	2	1	240	130	370	64	29	0.1	0.0	10.0	5.4	15.4	2.7	1.2	0
1997	North Melbourne	7	11	1	0	78	32	110	24	10	0.1	0.0	7.1	2.9	10.0	2.2	0.9	0
Career			151	15	22	1726	738	2464	456	148	0.1	0.1	11.4	4.9	16.3	3.0	1.0	20

Coaching statistics

Legend
W	Wins	L	Losses	D	Draws	W%	Winning percentage	LP	Ladder position	LT	League teams

^[14]

Season	Team	Games	W	L	D	W %	LP	LT
2003	Kangaroos	22	11	10	1	52.3%	10	16
2004	Kangaroos	22	10	12	0	45.5%	10	16
2005	Kangaroos	23	13	10	0	56.5%	5	16
2006	Kangaroos	22	7	15	0	31.8%	14	16
2007	Kangaroos	25	15	10	0	60.0%	4	16
2008	North Melbourne	23	12	10	1	54.3%	7	16
2009[a]	North Melbourne	12	4	8	0	33.3%	13	16
Career totals		149	72	75	2	49.0%

Personal life

Laidley underwent a gender transition from 2019, and changed her name to Danielle May Laidley. After an unauthorised outing by a police officer in May 2020, she was obliged to reveal this to the public.^{[15][16][17][18]} The outing occurred after Laidley was arrested and charged with one count of stalking. She did not apply for bail.^[19] She was allegedly found with 0.43 grams of methamphetamine in her bra at the time of her arrest.^[20] A Victoria Police officer distributed photos of Laidley in women's clothing taken while she was in custody. In December, the officer was charged with unauthorised access and disclosure of police information as well as misconduct in public office. Three other officers were accused of the same breach. In November 2020, Laidley was placed into a diversion program and given an "adjourned undertaking with no conviction recorded" on the stalking charge.^[21][22]

Laidley was previously married to Joanna, with whom she has three children. She has since (as of September 2023^[update]) reconciled with Donna Leckie, who she had dated on-and-off prior to her marriage.^[23]

In 2021 Laidley became involved with the North Melbourne Football Club again, tossing the coin at the 2022 AFLW Pride Round game against the GWS Giants,^[24] and attending other club events with North Melbourne players and management.^[25]

Her memoir, Don't Look Away, co-written with Konrad Marshall, was released in August 2022.^[26]

Danielle Laidley: Two Tribes, a documentary about her life, premiered on Stan in September 2023.^[27]

Footnotes

1. Laidley resigned as coach in 2009. Darren Crocker coached the club for the remainder of the season.

References

1. "Dani Laidley". AFL Tables (in Luxembourgish). Retrieved 8 March 2024.
2. Harms, John (2 August 2003). "The Laidley Spirit". The Age. Melbourne.
3. "DANI LAIDLEY". Retrieved 30 September 2022.
4. "Laidley confirmed as Roos new coach". 2 October 2002. Retrieved 30 September 2022.
5. Holroyd, Jane (30 May 2006). "Fan's death 'devastating': Laidley". The Age. Melbourne.
6. Timms, Daryl (16 March 2007). "Dump Laidley: Carey". The Advertiser.
7. "Laidley hits back at Carey comments". The Sydney Morning Herald. Retrieved 24 May 2023.
8. "Carey and Laidley agree to disagree". The Sydney Morning Herald. Retrieved 24 May 2023.
9. Denham, Greg (9 August 2007). "Laidley rejects Demons' advances". The Australian.
10. Paine, Chris (16 June 2009). "Laidley ends 'great journey' at North".
11. "Dean Laidley resigns as coach of North Melbourne". 16 June 2009. Retrieved 30 September 2022.
12. Brodie, Will (2 November 2011). "Saints nab Laidley". The Age. Melbourne.
13. "AFL Tables - Dani Laidley - Stats - Statistics". afltables.com.
14. "AFL Tables - Dani Laidley - Coaching Record". afltables.com.
15. Salmon, Alex (8 November 2022). "Identity and acceptance in the masculine world of sport". Green Left. Retrieved 1 February 2024. After this forced outing, her lawyer Rob Stary told the media Laidley had been undergoing a gender transition since 2019, and wanted to be referred to as Danielle May Laidley, with the pronouns she and her. From this point, Laidley committed herself to using her experiences to advocate for the mental issues community.
16. McGowan, Michael (4 May 2020). "Dean Laidley: Victoria police officer stood down over leaked photos of ex-North Melbourne AFL coach". The Guardian. ISSN 0261-3077. Retrieved 19 September 2023.
17. "Second Victoria Police officer suspended over leak of Dean Laidley photos". ABC News. 5 May 2020. Retrieved 19 September 2023.
18. "Senior cop stood down over 'appalling' photo leak as troubled ex-AFL coach faces seven charges". Fox Sports. 4 May 2020. Retrieved 19 September 2023.
19. "AFL 2020: Dean Laidley,arrested, in police custody, charges, stalking, in court May 11, did not apply for bail". Fox Sports. 3 May 2020. Retrieved 3 May 2020.
20. "Dean Laidley allegedly found with meth during arrest". ESPN. 11 May 2020. Retrieved 2 December 2020.
21. "Victorian police officer charged with distributing photos of former AFL coach Dani Laidley, taken while in custody". ABC News. 2 December 2020. Retrieved 2 December 2020.
22. Ore, Adeshola (25 July 2023). "Victorian police officer who shared images of Dani Laidley sacked over photos of dead bodies". The Guardian. Retrieved 12 October 2023.
23. Millar, Lisa (17 September 2023). "AFL star, coach and transgender role model — Danielle Laidley lays bare her story, in her own words". ABC News. Retrieved 12 October 2023.
24. "Laidley tosses coin for Pride match as Roos triumph in the heat, Harris stars for Dees". 22 January 2022.
25. "Dani Laidley's return to North Melbourne praised by transgender community - ABC News".
26. Horn, Jonathan (29 August 2022). "Reframing courage: Danielle Laidley tells of overcoming fear, shame and alpha male world of the AFL". The Guardian. Retrieved 12 October 2023.
27. "Former coach Danielle Laidley praises AFL for support during difficult time". The Guardian. 19 September 2023. Retrieved 12 October 2023 – via Australian Associated Press.

External links

• Danielle Laidley's playing statistics from AFL Tables
• Danielle Laidley at AustralianFootball.com
• Dani Laidley's WAFL playing statistics

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