Only You Can Love Me This Way

"Only You Can Love Me This Way"
Single by Keith Urban
from the album Defying Gravity
Released	29 June 2009 (2009-06-29)
Recorded	2009
Genre	Country
Length	4:07 (album version) 3:39 (single edit)
Label	Capitol Nashville
Songwriter(s)	Steve McEwan John Reid
Producer(s)	Dann Huff Keith Urban
Keith Urban singles chronology
"Kiss a Girl" (2009) "Only You Can Love Me This Way" (2009) "'Til Summer Comes Around" (2009)

"Only You Can Love Me This Way" is a song written by Steve McEwan and John Reid and recorded by Australian country music singer Keith Urban. It was released in June 2009 as the third single from Urban's 2009 album Defying Gravity. The song became his eleventh number one hit on the U.S. Billboard Hot Country Songs chart in October 2009.

Writing and inspiration

Steve McEwan and John Reid penned the song together in a studio at a songwriting camp in Nashville where they had just met for the first time.^[1] In an interview with HitQuarters McEwan said the demo of the song that was successfully pitched to Urban featured McEwan singing backed by an acoustic guitar and a "tiny drum machine".^[1] Reid had originally sung on the demo but it was later felt it would stand a better chance of being accepted by Urban if, rather than Reid's "sweet pop voice", it was sung in McEwan's deeper "more American" vocal.^[1]

Content

"Only You Can Love Me This Way" is a mid-tempo ballad in which the male narrator states that he and his lover were meant for each other.

According to the Broadcast Music Incorporated (BMI) database, Rascal Flatts has also recorded the song.^[2]

Critical reception

The song has received favorable reviews from music critics. Jonathan Keefe of Slant Magazine said that the song "recall[s] the drippiness of early-'90s Richard Marx and Bryan Adams".^[3] Tara Seetharam of Country Universe gave the song a B+ grade. Her review makes note of the "stripped-down" production and adds, "It’s a testament to Urban’s artistry that he’s able to breathe life and passion into such nondescript lyrics.^[4] Michael Menachem of Billboard gave the song a favorable review, calling it "an affectionate ballad that could easily be a wedding song[…]Urban's genteel inflections are enhanced by light production and soft guitar strums."^[5] Bobby Peacock of Roughstock, despite saying that it was "below the standards" of other ballads in Urban's career, called it a "welcome change" after the up-tempos "Sweet Thing" and "Kiss a Girl." This review also mentioned Urban's "warm, passionate tone" and the "stripped-down" production.^[6]

Music video

Directed by Chris Hicky, the video was shot at the Wells Fargo Arena in Des Moines, Iowa in late June 2009. It premiered in early August of that year. It starts with the sound of an audience cheering, while Urban walks on stage. He then performs to an empty theatre with an acoustic guitar. Later, he performs to various fans. The video ends with the sound and visual of him being applauded, and walking away.

Chart performance

"Only You Can Love Me This Way" charted on the U.S. Billboard Hot 100 and Canadian Hot 100 on the chart week of 11 April 2009, debuting at No. 84 and No. 72 respectively. Upon its release to country radio in June, the song debuted at No. 52 on the U.S. Billboard Hot Country Songs chart, before climbing to No. 30 a week later, and re-entered both the U.S. and Canadian Hot 100 soon afterward.

Chart (2009)	Peak position
Canada Country (Billboard)[7]	1
Canada (Canadian Hot 100)[8]	49
US Billboard Hot 100[9]	34
US Hot Country Songs (Billboard)[10]	1

Year-end charts

Chart (2009)	Position
US Country Songs (Billboard)[11]	19

Certifications

Region	Certification	Certified units/sales
Australia (ARIA)[12]	Gold	35,000^‡
United States (RIAA)[13]	Platinum	1,000,000^‡
^‡ Sales+streaming figures based on certification alone.

References

1. "Interview With Steve McEwan", HitQuarters, 18 January 2010.
2. "Search results for "Only You Can Love Me This Way"". BMI. Retrieved 21 July 2009.
3. Keefe, Jonathan (30 March 2009). "Defying Gravity review". Slant. Archived from the original on 3 April 2009. Retrieved 20 July 2009.
4. Seetharam, Tara (9 July 2009). "Defying Gravity review". Country Universe. Retrieved 20 July 2009.
5. https://www.billboard.com/artist/keith-urban/chart-history/
6. Bobby Peacock (23 July 2009). "Keith Urban — "Only You Can Love Me This Way"". Roughstock. Archived from the original on 13 June 2011. Retrieved 12 October 2009.
7. "Keith Urban Chart History (Canada Country)". Billboard. Retrieved 10 April 2020.
8. "Keith Urban Chart History (Canadian Hot 100)". Billboard. Retrieved 10 April 2011.
9. "Keith Urban Chart History (Hot 100)". Billboard. Retrieved 10 April 2011.
10. "Keith Urban Chart History (Hot Country Songs)". Billboard. Retrieved 10 April 2011.
11. "Best of 2009: Country Songs". Billboard. 2009. Retrieved 13 December 2009.
12. "ARIA Charts – Accreditations – 2023 Singles" (PDF). Australian Recording Industry Association. Retrieved 30 November 2023.
13. "American single certifications – Keith Urban – Only You Can Love Me This Way". Recording Industry Association of America. Retrieved 24 August 2019.