During the Great Eastern Crisis, a meeting held in Debar (1880) by Albanian notables deciding on the course of action regarding the Ottoman cessation of Ulcinj to Montenegro, Xhemal was in the pro-government group advocating no action be taken and was against a declaration of Albanian autonomy in the Balkans.[1]
Xhemal married Zenja Malika Khanum (Melek Hanem) (Castle Burgajet, Mati, c. 1860 - Castle Burgajet, Mati, 1884), his first cousin, in Mati in 1880; after she died in childbirth in 1884 he married Sadiya Khanum (Sadijé Hanem) in Mati in 1887. Her title was later changed to Nëna Mbretëreshë i Shqiptarëvet ("Queen Mother of the Albanians").
He became involved in an insurrection against the Ottomans planned for June 1903, which did not take place.[citation needed]
Issue
By Zenja Malika Hanem, Xhemal had a son and a stillbirth child
Prince Xhelal Zogu (1881-1944). Political man. He married four time and had four sons and four daughters.
Stillbirth child (1884). The mother died in childbirth also.
By Sadije Toptani, Xhemal had two sons and six daughters:
Princess Adile (1890-1966). She married once and had three sons and two daughters.