Silver was born and raised in Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada.[3]
Silver first visited Israel in 1968, during her junior year of college.[4] She studied abroad at the Hebrew University of Jerusalem, where she studied psychology and English literature.[4] Silver was also heavily involved in the North American Jewish Students Network, where she was the administrator of the Jewish Student Press Service beginning in 1972.[1][5] In this capacity, Silver began publishing articles about Israeli–Palestinian relations.[1] In her senior year of college, Silver co-founded the Student Zionist Alliance on her campus and was subsequently invited to the Student Zionist Alliance national conference in Montreal that year.[4]
In 1973, Silver and Shifra Bronznick organized the first National Conference of Jewish Women.[1]
Activism
Silver immigrated to Israel in 1974 and became a member of kibbutzGezer as part of the Habonim Dror movement.[1][3][6] At Gezer, she became the kibbutz's secretary, one of the few women to do so;[6] later, she became chairperson of the community.[7] At times, she received pushback from within the kibbutz for her refusal to adhere to gender norms and her choice to take on traditionally male work, such as overseeing construction,.[5] Silver's early activism focused on women's rights and gender disparities in Israeli society.[6] To this end, she founded the United Kibbutz Movement's Department to Advance Gender Equality in 1981.[4][6][7] She also worked within the Knesset on the sub-committee for the Advancement of Women in Work and the Economy,[6] for the New Israel Fund, and on the Steering Committee of Shatil.[4]
She moved to Be'eri, a kibbutz near the Gaza border, in 1990, along with her husband and two sons.[1][3] During this time, she became better acquainted with the local Bedouin community and Gazans. She served as executive director for the Negev Institute for Strategies of Peace and Development (NISPED) beginning in 1998.[3][8] Silver worked within the kibbutz to organize programs to help Gazans, such as job trainings, and ensured that Gazan construction workers at the kibbutz were paid fairly.[3]
Before the closure of the Gaza border in 2007, Silver worked with Gazan residents in cross-cultural projects.[1][11] One group she founded, Creating Peace, focused on fostering business connections between Palestinian and Israeli artisans.[1]
Silver was a former board member of B'Tselem, a Jerusalem-based human rights organization.[8] She was also involved with Alliance for Middle East Peace, as well as a number of their member organizations.[12] As part of this work, she helped organize and lead tours of the Israeli side of the Israeli–Gaza border, as a way to raise awareness about the struggles of Gaza residents.[12]
On October 4, 2023, Silver helped to organize a peace rally in Jerusalem, which attracted 1,500 Israeli and Palestinian women.[13][14]
Disappearance and death
On October 7, 2023, Irwin Cotler reported on Twitter that Silver had been abducted from her home in Be'eri during the Hamas attacks which incited the 2023 Israel–Hamas war.[8][10][15] Silver's sister said that when she spoke to her sister on the phone on October 7, Silver reported hearing Hamas militants outside her home.[3][14] Silver also messaged friends on WhatsApp with a similar message.[13] Her home was found burned and gutted when Israeli responders arrived,[16] but because there was no body or signs of struggle, Silver was assumed to have been abducted.[2]
Silver's family and friends created a Facebook page "Missing Vivian Silver" to try to collect more information about her possible wherabouts[1] and asked the Red Cross and the Canadian government for assistance in finding Silver and securing her release.[1]
Silver's remains, which had been found in Be'eri, were identified five weeks after the attack, and she was confirmed dead on November 13, 2023.[2][17]
Following the announcement of Silver's death, tributes to her were shared by B'Tselem, the Jewish Federation of Winnipeg, and Women Wage Peace.[18][19] Online tributes to Silver were also posted by Canadian politician and human rights lawyer Irwin Cotler, Canadian foreign minister Mélanie Joly, Canadian ambassador to Israel Lisa Stadelbauer, and Israeli politician Tzipi Livni.[19][20] On November 14, Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau also recognized Silver's death at an event, saying that she would "be deeply missed".[21]
Silver's funeral was held at the kibbutz of Gezer, where she had lived from 1974 until 1990, on November 16.[7][22] Approximately 1,500 people attended her funeral.[7][22][23] She was buried in Be'eri at a private service.[24]
Recognition and legacy
In 2011, Haaretz named Silver as one of the "10 Most Influential Anglo Immigrants" to Israel.[25]
In August 2024, a community kitchen in the Zomi displaced persons camp in the al-Mawasi humanitarian zone in southern Gaza was named after Silver following the approval of one of her sons. The camp was established by Damour for Community Development, Clean Shelter, the Wonderbag Foundation, and UNICEF.[26]
Her son Yonaton Zeigen has set up a Vivian Silver Impact Award. The prize will be awarded annually to two women, Arab and Jewish, who show great promise or have demonstrated significant accomplishments in one of the areas that embody Vivian’s values and actions.[27]
Personal life
Silver was Jewish.[15] She was married to Lewis Zeigen[28] and had two sons and four grandchildren.[1][3][4]