"Unlovable" is a song by American rock band Beach Weather. It was released on August 12, 2022, as the second single from their debut studio album, Pineapple Sunrise. The song was later re-released on June 2, 2023, featuring English rock band Pale Waves.
Background
"Unlovable" finds the group exploring themes of loneliness, anxiety and emotional tumult. In a statement, the band revealed:
"'Unlovable' is vulnerable, insecure, and self-deprecating... and that's what makes it so lovable. We had been building all of these ideas in our heads of what we thought we needed to be and whether we could be satisfied with who we actually were. I think in a way it's about questioning your own value. Wondering if you'll ever truly be enough and never completely meeting expectations. At the same time being satisfied knowing that it’s human to feel that way."[2]
It was released as the second single from Pineapple Sunrise on August 12, 2022.[3] On June 2, 2023, they re-released the single, featuring vocal contributions from English band Pale Waves. Sean Silverman spoke about having the band on the track, noting how after listening to their song, "She's My Religion", he "envisioned" collaborating with them.[4] He also felt that "having a contrasting vocal" offered a different perspective, which resonated with them and they began recording with Heather Baron-Gracie.[4]
Composition
Nick Santino initially wrote the title of the track in 2017. While he was at an airport, he heard the word "unlovable" and decided to write it down. He ended up writing down the line, "How'd I get so damn unlovable?."[5] Santino revealed that the song is about having "moments where we sink into that self-consciousness of feeling unworthy of love" and called it "a spiritual successor" to "Sex, Drugs, Etc.", as they both "come from very similar places."[5] Sean Silverman described the track as "the big brother song to 'Sex, Drugs, Etc'."[6] He also revealed that the song "came together naturally" and was the easiest to put together.[7]
On August 12, 2022, the group released an official visualizer for "Unlovable".[11] The band premiered the music video for the song on September 14, 2022, and was directed by Alexa San Román.[12]
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