In 1911, in Halewood, Merseyside, Whateley married Emily Grace Plummer, a daughter of Francis Bowes Plummer, Rector of Halewood.[6] They had three children, Richard F. A. (born 1914), Ellen M. B. (1918), and Kevin H. (1920). Whately died at the Royal Salop Infirmary, Shrewsbury, on 7 December 1947, while still serving as Rector of Church Stretton.[7] His widow survived him until 1952.[8]
^Ecclesiastical News. New Archdeacon of LudlowThe Times (London, England), Monday, Sep 11, 1939; pg. 11; Issue 48407
^ObituaryThe Times (London, England), Monday, Dec 08, 1947; pg. 4; Issue 50938
^"Alumni Oxonienses: the members of the University of Oxford, 1715-1886; their parentage, birthplace and year of birth, with a record of their degrees. Being the matriculation register of the University" Foster, J (Ed) Vol V p1533 Oxford, Parker & Co,1888
^‘WHATELY, Ven. Herbert Edward’, Who Was Who, A & C Black, an imprint of Bloomsbury Publishing plc, 1920–2016; online edn, Oxford University Press, 2014; online edn, April 2014 accessed 30 April 2017
^Marriages solemnized at the Parish Church in the Parish of Halewood in the County of Lancaster, No. 303, August 9th 1911, ancestry.co.uk, accessed 29 December 2022 (subscription required)
^"WHATELY the venerable Herbert Edward of The Rectory Church Stretton died 7 December 1947 at Royal Salop Infirmary Shrewsbury… Effects £6748" in Wills and Administrations 1948 (England and Wales) (1949), p. 284
^"WHATELY Emily Grace of Caradoc Lodge All Stretton Church Stretton Shropshire widow died 30 August 1952… Effects £17559" in Wills and Administrations 1953 (England and Wales) (1954), p. 346