Esbern was married three times. His first two wives were Holmfred and Ingeborg. His third wife, Helene, was the daughter of a Swedish Jarl, who is presumed to be Guttorm.[3][8] With Helene, he had a daughter Ingeborg, who married Peder Strangesen (died 1241), who may have been the son of Valdemar. She became the owner of Esbern's castle at Kalundborg.[8][9] He also had a daughter who married Anders Knudsen Grosøn of Tersløsegaard manor in Sorø.
Esbern gave a farm, Ovre (Aworthe), located in Hvidovre to Sorø Abbey around 1170, and it was later passed on to Absalon.[10] Esbern acquired the farm, Sæbygård [dk], sometime before his death. B.S. Ingemann wrote a poem about Sæbygård and its inhabitants, which is published in his novel, Valdemar Victory.[11]
Career
From "the most powerful family of magnates in the realm", Esbern was a royal chancellor[7] and a høvding (chieftain).[1] He and his brother Absalon had a close relationship, or alliance, with Valdemar.[7] Together, they consolidated the Danish Kingdom.[2]
In 1180, Esbern faced a rebellion because his brother, elected archbishop to the Roskilde see, had brought relatives into powerful positions. Then king, Valdemar interceded to put down the rebellion.[12]
After the fall of Jerusalem, Pope Innocent III and others asked King Canute VI and the Danes to join the crusade, stating that it would be right for crusaders to die for Christ, as he died for them. This was not well received by the Danes.[13] Esbern delivered a speech stating that the Danish people had been sliding into a period of depravity and decline, he called the crusade to Jerusalem to be of noble effort, as requested by the Pope, who was of a superior position.[13] In 1192, during the Crusades, he led a small group of Danish soldiers to the Holy Land.[2] He became inspired and upon his return to Denmark, he built the Kalundborg Kirke (Church of Our Lady, Kalundborg);[2][14] Art historian R.A. Stalley called the architectural style an "emphatic image of militant Christianity".[b][15] Esbern is considered the founder of the town of Kalundborg.[16][17]
Death
In 1204, he died at Sæbygård [dk] when he broke his neck on a millstone after falling down a staircase.[11] He was buried at Sorø Abbey.[3] After his death, Helene was royal mistress to Valdemar II of Denmark.[8]
Legacy
Two ships of the Royal Danish Navy have been named HDMS Esbern Snare, after Esbern the Resolute:
^ abcForte, Angelo; Oram, Richard D.; Oram, Richard; Pedersen, Frederik (2005-05-05). Viking Empires. Cambridge University Press. p. 378. ISBN978-0-521-82992-2.
^Forte, Angelo; Oram, Richard D.; Oram, Richard; Pedersen, Frederik (2005-05-05). Viking Empires. Cambridge University Press. p. 383. ISBN978-0-521-82992-2.