Cameron Anne Young Anastasia Esposito (born October 17, 1981) is an American actress, comedian, and podcaster known for her[a] show Take My Wife, as well as her stand-up comedy and her podcast, Queery. Esposito substantially focuses on topics surrounding the LGBTQ+ community, feminism, social justice, and the challenges faced by members of marginalized communities.[2][3] Originally from Western Springs, Illinois, Esposito lives in Los Angeles.
Esposito studied theology and English at Boston College, intending to become a social worker in Chicago.[12] While in Boston, she played rugby[13] and performed in the school's improv troupe, My Mother's Fleabag.[14] Esposito graduated from Boston College in 2004.[15]
After returning to Illinois, Esposito took a semester of social work courses at the University of Chicago before deciding to pursue a different career.[12]
Career
Early stand-up career
Esposito began her stand-up career in Chicago, performing in various local venues, including as a regular at The Lincoln Lodge from 2007 to 2011.[16] She has appeared at comedy festivals including SXSW, the Moontower, Bridgetown Comedy Festival, and SF Sketchfest. To supplement her income, she worked in special education, as a law clerk, and as a nanny.[17]
In the fall of 2014, Esposito created a series of videos with BuzzFeed Motion Pictures titled "Ask a Lesbian",[21] in which she answers a variety of questions sent into BuzzFeed staff about lesbianism. The videos also featured then-partner River Butcher.[22] In addition to touring regularly, Esposito was a regular panelist on Chelsea Lately with Chelsea Handler[citation needed] and used to write a regular blog on The A.V. Club.[23]
Esposito's comedy album Same Sex Symbol was released in December 2014 by Kill Rock Stars. She appeared on Comedy Central's Drunk History as a storyteller on October 20, 2015. Esposito co-hosted the stand-up comedy podcast Put Your Hands Together with River Butcher, which was recorded weekly in front of a live audience at the Upright Citizens Brigade Theater in Los Angeles from 2013 until July 2019.[24][25]
Esposito is known for her lesbian content creation,[26] especially hers and Butcher's television show Take My Wife, which streamed on Seeso until the service was discontinued in November 2017.[27] In March 2018, Take My Wife was picked up by iTunes.[28] The show was acquired by Starz in April 2018.[29]
On June 11, 2018, Esposito released Rape Jokes, an hour-long standup special about sexual assault from her perspective. The special was free to stream on Esposito's website, but viewers could pay to download a copy and proceeds would benefit RAINN, the United States' largest anti-sexual violence organization.[32][33][34][35] By September 2018, the special had raised $65,000 in donations.[36]
On March 24, 2020, Esposito released her memoir Save Yourself.[37]
Personal life
Esposito is openly lesbian and was married to fellow stand-up comedian River Butcher from 2015 to 2018.[38][39][40] Butcher and Esposito collaborated on multiple projects, including the Put Your Hands Together stand-up show, the podcast Wham! Bam! Pow!, and the TV show Take My Wife.
In April 2021, Esposito came out on Twitter and Instagram as genderfluid, stating that she uses both she and they pronouns.[41] In June 2021, Esposito announced via Twitter that she had married Katy Nishimoto, an editor for Dial Press.[42]
