Harriet Cholmondeley (c.1790 –[1] 11 July 1815), sometimes called "Lady" or "The Hon" Harriet Cholmondeley, was the first wife of John Lambton, 1st Earl of Durham.
Lambton, who at the time was a commoner, an army officer and the son of an MP, was under 21 and was refused permission to marry by his guardians.[4] Harriet's father also forbade the marriage.[5] The couple eloped to Scotland and married at Gretna Green on 1 January 1812; they subsequently went through an Anglican wedding ceremony on Harriet's father's estate at Malpas, Cheshire, on 28 January. They had three daughters, all of whom died as young women:
Lady Frances Charlotte (16 October 1812 – 18 December 1835), who married the Hon. John Ponsonby (later 5th Earl of Bessborough), but died a few months later of consumption; they had no children.
The Hon. Georgiana Sarah Elizabeth (2 March 1814 – 3 January 1833), who died unmarried
The Hon. Harriet Caroline (30 May 1815 – 12 June 1832), who died unmarried
Harriet died, probably of tuberculosis,[4] a few weeks after the birth of her youngest daughter.
^G.E. Cokayne; with Vicary Gibbs, H.A. Doubleday, Geoffrey H. White, Duncan Warrand and Lord Howard de Walden, editors, The Complete Peerage of England, Scotland, Ireland, Great Britain and the United Kingdom, Extant, Extinct or Dormant, new ed., 13 volumes in 14 (1910-1959; reprint in 6 volumes, Gloucester, U.K.: Alan Sutton Publishing, 2000), volume II, page 172.
